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Why me?

Posted by Shirley Anne on March 19, 2010

Is it just me that gets let down or do others have these problems too? On Monday last I submitted my prescription for renewal at my doctor’s surgery. The chemist’s (drug store) name is written on it so they collect from the surgery and I go a couple of days later to collect from them. This morning I went into town to do just that only to discover that the chemist didn’t have the prescription. I went to the surgery and explained what had happened and it appears that the surgery and my doctor are to blame for delaying the prescription to be collected. This is the second time in six months that it has happened. My doctor says she wants to see me first but the last time it happened I said to her don’t hold back the prescription, I will call in to the surgery when you ask me to. It’s ok to hold back the prescription as long as I have medication to use in the meantime. Fortunately I leave myself two week’s supply when I submit my request. I will have none a week on Tuesday. The point I am making is I need the meds (hormones) and there is no reason to hold back supplying them if I am being monitored regularly. The doctor is at fault for waiting for me to prompt her by asking for a repeat prescription instead of giving me a check up every six months. I will tell her that when I see her. So that was one let down.
This morning I was supposed to see Lauren who does my electrolysis. She didn’t turn up again. It isn’t a real problem missing an appointment but it is inconvenient when I have other things to do. So an hour was wasted which could have been put to some other use. All she has to do is ask me to cancel but to allow me to sit waiting when she isn’t going to turn up is a bit naughty.
I went to the supermarket after work, which today was at 12 noon, to buy some wine and cola. I thought it would only take ten minutes so I collected a basket and went straight to the display shelves and collected what I wanted. I looked at the check-out aisles to see who was free and a girl called me over to some new check-out machines they’ve installed. You scan the items yourself and then place them in the bags provided but leave them there as the table detects the presence of the items. Next, you place cash into the slots provided or use your card to pay. The problem was I had never seen these machines before and I kept making mistakes. The girl assistant got me through but was not helpful in describing the proper procedure. A guy on the next machine was cursing it, just as I was! Turns out that he works in the place! It proves the public don’t like the new system but I suppose we’ll all have to shop this way in the future. You buy it, you scan it, you operate the system and you pay. You even have to bag everything yourself. Ok, we’ve had to bag things ourselves for a long time but what ever happened to ‘service’? I don’t know what the reasoning is behind some of these new ideas but if it is intended to speed up the process, it doesn’t work! I said to the girl, ‘Never again. Give me a check-out girl any day. At least you can chat with them’! Anyhow the whole process slowed me down somewhat unnecessarily.
Why me?

Shirley Anne

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Jumpy

Posted by Shirley Anne on March 19, 2010

I seem to be very ‘jumpy’ these days. Quite often I am sitting at home perhaps on the computer, watching television or reading and one of the telephones will ring. I am taken by surprise and react accordingly! This brings a smile from E. I guess I am so relaxed that the sudden ringing makes me jump. Perhaps I am too sensitive. I tend to think that is the case. Some might say it is my age. If I am sitting playing my guitar and my phone rings it doesn’t bother me. It doesn’t bother me when I am working. I only seem to be ‘jumpy’ when I am relaxed. Yesterday evening I was sipping a hot coffee when my phone rang. I jumped and consequently some of the liquid spilled onto my chest. Not pleasant and it could have scalded me had it spilled on bare flesh. I suppose I should be more careful, well it could have been a glass of wine! What a waste!

Shirley Anne

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Read this

Posted by Shirley Anne on March 18, 2010

The Book of Romans………
Chapter 14

11 It is written:
‘As surely as I live,’ says the Lord,
‘every knee will bow before me;
every tongue will confess to God.’
12 So then, each of us will give an account of himself to God.

Every knee will bow before God. No exceptions. If you don’t believe in Him now, you most certainly will then!

Shirley Anne

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You’ll die tomorrow

Posted by Shirley Anne on March 18, 2010

Ok I hope that isn’t going to be your fate but one day it is going to happen. In the meantime are you making the most out of your life? How do you spend your time? What is it you like to do and are you doing it? We all imagine what we would do if we suddenly found ourselves with a fortune in cash to spend, what would you do in that situation? Do you think you might change your mind and do something completely different? I saw the news on TV yesterday where this guy won £2.3 million and he says he is going to continue working as a coach driver, something he has been doing for seventeen years. He reasons that if he likes driving a coach then why change? I am sure he will treat himself to some luxuries and from what he says others in his family will benefit too. What he is really saying is that too much cash is of no real use to him personally but it will enable him not to worry about paying for something he might desire. Do you think you might have that same attitude or would you think entirely differently? I know what I would do with such an amount and it wouldn’t be squandered but be put to good use. I read something on a Christian website which said something like, ‘You cannot take it with you when you die but you can send it on ahead’. In other words don’t place your desires on earthly treasure but store up your treasure in the place you’ll be going.

Shirley Anne

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Small things

Posted by Shirley Anne on March 17, 2010

It was such a lovely day yesterday. I had done a job at a house twelve miles away and was back home mid-morning. I had things to do on my computer, then cook lunch. Afterwards I spent some time in the front garden helping E clear some shrubs and dead plants. The guys doing the driveway had left. I set a fire and burned the rubbish. Problem with that was I smelled of smoke later and had to change my clothes. The thing is, it was enjoyable. Simple and enjoyable just pottering around the garden clearing it up. Whilst we were out front we saw people passing by occasionally, not many as our road is fairly quiet except for the odd speedster now and then. The guy opposite came home in his Bently but had to wait for his electric gates to open. He had to get out of the vehicle to move the waste bin that had been emptied but replaced in front of the gates. A few minutes later his next-door neighbour had to do the same thing but he had a more difficult time trying to drive into the driveway leading to his house because of the size of his vehicle. I remarked to E something about all the fuss that was needed just to drive into the properties. Whatever happened to the simple life? Where I live there are plenty of wealthy people and many large houses. My own house is large but I am not wealthy! I get by. If I can sell my house I will because we have no need of such a large place. It would be better if there were more people living in it and I suppose that is a possibility. The point I make is that it is the simple things in my life which are the more enjoyable. I have no need of an electric-gated large property and loads of money in the bank as long as my simple needs are met. We can get trapped on an endless merry-go-round of accumulating material things most of which we don’t need just trying to ‘keep up with the Joneses’. That is something I have never done nor ever wish to. Give me the simple pleasures in life any time. Small things in my day make my day, like clearing out the front garden on a warm and sunny Spring day, drinking a glass of red wine or two on the way.

Shirley Anne

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On the town

Posted by Shirley Anne on March 16, 2010

Recently I came across this item written by Jillian, a girl I met whilst on holiday in Canada last year. I kept it for sentimental reasons at the time but now I have found it again I thought I might share it with you.
Jillian was a couple of months away from her operation when we met and is now enjoying her life as the woman she knew she was all her life.

On the Town

Shirley Anne has quite the sense of humour, as the citizens of Quebec who cross her path are learning. Today, Shirley Anne, her friend E and I visited St. Sauveur — in the Laurentians north of Montreal. It is very much a resort area, particularly in the winter when its many ski hills are in operation. But it is popular all year round, with arts festivals, the current Saka horse show and so much more. And it’s teeming with boutiques and fine restaurants.
Our first stop in St. Sauveur today was at the renowned Pagé bakery on Rue de l’Eglise. It’s full of delicious breads, pastries and other yummies. Of course, I’m watching my figure, so declined the calorie splurge, but my two guests indulged in something sweet. While they were choosing and munching, I strolled across the street to the local Catholic church, which was open to tourists. I sat in a pew for a little while and prayed. It’s a pretty rural church, though not anywhere near as ornate as Mary Queen of the World Cathedral in Montreal (my fave). Still, it’s a quiet place for reflection . . .
Next door to the bakery is a medieval clothing shop I very much wanted to visit. So, once Shirley Anne and E had finished munching their pastries and I was done in the church, into the shop we went to look over the creations of gifted designer Anne Larochelle. Well, you gotta know that we didn’t leave the shop empty-handed. Shirley-Anne bought a beautiful full-length medieval-style coat, while I bought a black medieval-style skirt (50 percent off) — with slits on the sides to show off a bit of leg! Even we medieval gals like to provide a peek, yes? Smiles . . .
By this time, Shirley Anne and E were thinking they would like a drink in “a pub.” And “pub” we found not far away, on Rue Principale. Shirley Anne and E made themselves at home immediately at the bar, and Shirley Anne was soon regaling the locals there with stories and her humour.
I don’t drink alcohol (bit of wine once in a while), so decided to check out some of the boutiques while my pals relaxed in “the pub.” Lordie, there are soooo many nice boutiques in St. Sauveur — and there were so many items I would have liked to have purchased. Sigh . . . But I exercised amazing control over my shopping urge (addiction). I ended up buying a very long silver necklace with silver leaves and dangly matching earrings for a mere $30 (plus tax). Hey, I could have spent thousands on some of the beautiful jewelry and clothes I saw there . . .
Back at “the pub” with Shirley Anne and E, I discovered them in full gaiety mode with the locals, who had suggested a restaurant at which we might dine. So off we went . . . to Restaurant Le Rio on Rue Principale, which opens for dinner at 5 p.m.
Well, where to begin? With Shirley Anne’s sense of humour? Or with the owner who came to our table to greet us (and who had my heart fluttering) . . . Sigh . . .
First things first: the menu. Shirley Anne and E chose to have rib-eye steaks. Shirley Anne went the table d’hote route and had some delicious deep-fried mushrooms (yes, I had a taste) and soup as entrees. I passed on the table d’hote and chose a tilapia filet meuniere from the fish menu. The fish was cooked in a tasty thin batter and was served with homemade fries, garden salad and rice. The portions were huge — too much for a weight-conscious girl like me. But it was delicious, even if I did leave some of the fries and most of the rice on my plate.
Now to Shirley Anne’s sense of humour: Not only was our French Canadian waitress excellent at her job, but she was also a good sport. Shirley Anne kidded her — kindly — with odd British-isms and such whenever the young lady came to our table. I told Shirley Anne that the young lady deserved an extra special tip . . .
I was quite touched when the owner came to greet us before our dinners arrived. He chatted with us for a while, thanked us for coming . . .
Not too long after our dinners had been served, the chef paid us a visit: “Is everything to your satisfaction,” he asked. When we told him everything was excellent, he replied, pumping one arm in the air: “Wonderful! I still have a job!” Another sweet guy. Sigh . . .
Not too long afterward, the owner returned to ask if all was well. Shirley Anne told him everything was terrible — kidding, of course. Oy. That British sense of humour . . .
And the restaurant owner was sooo nice . . . sigh . . . When he found out I live in Ste-Adele, he urged me to come back to his restaurant . . . Smiles . . . (Did I say I was off men? Oy.)
Well, to make this very long story a bit shorter, the food, the service, the welcomes were wonderful at this restaurant, and I recommend it to my readers.
And off we went back to my house . . .
As is always the case for me these days, everywhere I went today, I was called “madame.” Obviously, that is how the world at large sees me, and it feels so good. All those people today helped me shake off a depression that had set in during the past week. My prayers in that small church were answered.
Shirley Anne and E are in Montreal until the 20th of this month, so if any of the local regulars who frequent this blog want to see them, write to me and I’ll give you their contact info.
Cheers
Jillian

Shirley Anne

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Wine will do it every time!

Posted by Shirley Anne on March 15, 2010

It’s a funny thing but wine will do it every time! Not only wine either but any alcohol! I had no work to do today which seemingly is the trend lately but no matter. I took E out to lunch/dinner that is she drove us to the restaurant. Now come on let’s be fair, she doesn’t drink these days mainly because of her medications but also partly because she doesn’t like alcohol too much! She let slip that her fuel tank was erring on the empty side so I insisted we go get some fuel. I paid for that as I did for the meal but that is beside the point. Anyhow we were discussing something during the meal and I said ‘I must write about that in my blog’. Well a glass or two of wine later and I forgot what it was! I will probably remember at eleven o’clock tonight as I am going to bed! Then I will forget all about it again. Such is life. The meal was good though. I had breaded mushrooms with a dip for starters followed by chilli-con-carne with an apple crumble and ice cream topping for dessert. E had melon to start followed by a beefsteak and apple crumble with fresh cream for dessert. The red wine on the table was almost emptied my myself but what was left I brought home. I am finishing it off right now! I had a liqueur coffee to round off the meal. I wish I could remember what it was I was going to write about. Ah well no matter………….

Shirley Anne

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New things

Posted by Shirley Anne on March 15, 2010

Yesterday I, that is we, had a visit from our eldest son and his wife. He proudly drove up in his newly acquired car. I say newly acquired because it isn’t new and has a few miles on the clock. Nearly new would be a better description but it looks as if it’s just left the showroom. The mileage is low and the car is very well-appointed with satnav and many other gadgets built-in. He needed a new vehicle because his old one was beginning to give him problems and it was costing too much to keep it going. I had ‘lent’ him £6000 towards the cost of purchase but I am not expecting that money back. I haven’t told him that though. If he can save the £6000 he will be that much better off! Anyway that was one new thing.
I just heard from a friend that she is seeking help for her gender dysphoria. I met ‘J’ years ago when I first ventured out ‘en femme’ in my pre-transition days and we have remained friends ever since. For a while she stopped ‘dressing’ and took a university degree, successfully completing the course. She has since started her own business and seems to be doing well. We meet together occasionally when she visits my house or if she has a dinner date with her member friends from the group she is involved with and invites me along. I thought years ago that her gender dysphoria would not go away but of course she had to find out for herself. So although this is news it comes as no surprise to me. I wish her the best and give my full support.
Life is full of surprises.

Shirley Anne

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What will you do tomorrow?

Posted by Shirley Anne on March 14, 2010

Today it is Mothering Sunday or Mother’s Day here in the UK. It is a time to celebrate mothers. Children bear gifts and show appreciation of their mothers. Many mothers will be taken out to dinner or have a party in their honour. Others will have a quiet time with their loved ones and family. Sons and daughters will have spent time planning what to buy or where to dine and how to make the day special and today they hope their mothers will enjoy it all. What will they be doing tomorrow? We all have plans of one sort or another. We plan to get up from our beds and face the day ahead. We plan our work, our meals, our holidays, our special days all in the hope that they will happen. We expect that nothing will go wrong and that all our aspirations will be met. What if the unexpected happens? Would you be prepared to face the unusual, especially if it was something totally out of your belief system? What will you do tomorrow when your world falls around you, all that you hold sincere is destroyed and you find yourself living in an entirely different life to that which you are accustomed? It’s not going to happen you say. You are secure and nothing is going to change your world. Remember John Lennon singing ‘Nothing’s going to change my world’? Something did change his world. Today is where you live. Tomorrow, that is the tomorrow you expect, is not guaranteed. The future holds many surprises and not all of them are good.

Shirley Anne

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Te He

Posted by Shirley Anne on March 13, 2010

An old lady goes into her local photographers studio and approaches the girl at the desk. ‘I have heard that many things can be done with photographs these days. Is it true’? She asked. ‘Oh yes’, said the girl, ‘we can do all sorts of things these days’, she continued. ‘How may we help you’? The old lady replied, ‘Well I have this photo and I would like you to erase part of it’. She showed the girl the photograph and the girl asked what specific thing would the old lady like the studio to do. The picture was of the Queen attending some special event. The old lady said ‘Can you erase that policeman standing just there holding back the crowd’? ‘Certainly’, replied the girl, ‘But why’? The old lady smiled and said, ‘Well I am standing behind him’!

Shirley Anne

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Yet another one

Posted by Shirley Anne on March 13, 2010

Today we are entertaining another couple wishing to view our house. This morning will see E and myself doing a spot of tidying and cleaning. I am not expecting an offer on the property. I have given up on that having been let down so many times. If we do receive an offer we will obviously give it some serious consideration. We cannot influence what people think because many will view with pre-conceived ideas. I will leave the house to speak for itself. Really, it is about potential. The house is large and will only be suitable for a large family or somebody who has plenty of cash to spend. We have had prospective developers look at the property but it seems all they want is to convert it into apartments. This can be done of course but the returns on investment would not be great so it discourages that group of people. We are prepared to make sacrifices so we shall have to just wait and see.

Shirley Anne

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Bad attitude

Posted by Shirley Anne on March 13, 2010

I was talking to somebody who makes communication with them very difficult. I have known this person for many, many years and I have tried my best with them but I know they are so stuck in their ways that I may never really get through to them. The person has an extremely stubborn attitude, refuses to engage in quality debate and is often so aggressive that I have to leave their presence. Many a time I have had my head bitten off for no reason at all. I persevere and hope that one day they will see that their attitude is driving people away. I suppose you’ll be wondering who this person is. The more astute will have already read between the lines. It is my ex-partner whom I will only refer to as ‘E’. The reason I bother with her is because I love her. I have lived with her now for 36 years and you would think that I would have given up years ago given the way she treats me. I don’t want to say anything nasty about her but she really does have a bad attitude at times. She and I hold different views on many things in life but in many things we find common ground. They say one should never try to change a person and I think that is right to a point. I have never tried to change E but I have tried to encourage her to take hold of life and be happy. All that I have done for her has been done in love, my love for her. I pray for her constantly.

Shirley Anne

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It’s a funny thing. Or is it?

Posted by Shirley Anne on March 12, 2010

I received an Email today from a site I subscribe to. The guy was talking about prophecy and about the things he knew as a twelve-year-old child now becoming a reality some fifty years later. He was talking about the demise of America and Great Britain (Great? Mmmm..I wonder.) at this present time. Two great nations suffering in a financial slump. Not only they but the European Community too. These and many more things are actually in prophecy. The Bible warns us both in the Old and New Testaments about the things we see happening in our generation. The Bible calls it ‘The end times’. Now I am not saying that ‘The end times’ are nigh but it is a sobering thought that it is a possibility. The Bible speaks of wars in diverse places, earthquakes and other things that happen with greater frequency. Do we not see these things happening even now? If it were the end times now then the signs we see are but just the beginning. What follows is prophesied as being far more catastrophic, especially for the unbeliever, the cynic. It isn’t a funny thing really if it is indeed true and although the end times might be just a little further away than we think, they nevertheless will happen and our children might be the ones who suffer.
For those who think this is foolishness I will simply say that many prophecies in the Bible have already come to pass.
An added thought spoken by that guy I mentioned was that in today’s world we have great knowledge at our fingertips and can know about anything that happens around the globe almost in an instant but we can fail to see the significance of some of the signs the Bible describes in the leading up to the end time. The Bible also speaks about people dashing here and there acquiring great knowledge. Something to think about.

Shirley Anne

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I woke up crying, I’m loved.

Posted by Shirley Anne on March 12, 2010

This morning I woke up crying. It wasn’t because I had been dreaming either. I woke up crying because I was talking to my Father. That is my heavenly Father, Abba. I woke up crying and they were tears of immense joy and happiness. I felt the warmth and presence of my Father, His arms surrounding me as I cried before Him. I came to Him in prayer as I awoke and knew He was listening. O the joy of knowing God, my Father, He who loves me. I am filled with His love. I had a nice day today too, all the aches, pains and sickness I felt yesterday have gone. I spent a morning at work, phoned home and invited E out to dinner. I went home, changed and we went out. Just as I was leaving the restaurant I got a call for work which I will do next Tuesday. Now it is late afternoon and I am sitting here writing this. Life is good, I feel good. God is good and I feel loved.

Shirley Anne

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Instant chat revisited

Posted by Shirley Anne on March 11, 2010

I notice that some folk are looking at this post from a month or two back. I have taken Meebo of my page because it won’t work as it should, that is the chat area isn’t displaying comments. I made a comment on this on my New Stuff and Info page.

Shirley Anne

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