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Posted by Shirley Anne on July 31, 2010
What a day! I’ve done nothing but work at home getting the place ready for our party tomorrow. Although not all of the house will be open to our guests we still cleaned it top to bottom. That is I did! E was doing other essential things, preparing food! I know I am in for a good night’s sleep that’s for sure! If the weather is fair we will have that barbecue too I think. Not much else going on this weekend. Hope yours is a good one!
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on July 30, 2010
I am feeling a bit tired today and a little out of sorts as they say. I was at work this morning until one-thirty and when I got back home all I wanted to do was lie on my bed, which I did for an hour. Yesterday I was full of energy and even did a spell on the treadmill after a morning’s work at home. Maybe my age is catching up on me. I know I am not as energetic as I used to be but I am certainly no couch potato! It could just be a simple case of a cold. I hope it doesn’t spoil my plans for Sunday. E and I are holding an all day party for family and friends. If the weather is fine we will incorporate a barbecue but we will be having a hot and cold buffet anyway and loads of lemonade (yeah sure). I have no work until Monday except what I will be doing in preparation for Sunday so hopefully all will be fine. After this gathering we will be looking to have another in the Autumn, maybe November. Hey, I could have it on my birthday, or near enough! That is on the 21st. Too far in the future to think about, crikey it’s still Summer, although it doesn’t look like it at the moment! We are having some heavy rain.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on July 29, 2010
I had a lovely dinner yesterday. E and I went to a ‘carvery’ where we could fill our plates with as much vegetables as we could eat along with the meat of our choice. I had beef, she had pork or rather roast ham. It is one of those places where you buy your first soft drink (if you want one) and then you can refill the glass as often as you wish by walking to the vending area. I generally have a diet cola and E usually drinks the ‘full fat’ variety, that is the ordinary cola. Yesterday I had a fine bottle of red wine brought to the table but it was only I who was drinking it. We go to this place fairly often and so we are well-known to all the staff and we laugh and joke with them. Later, after we had returned home, I decided to visit the pub but didn’t go immediately. E drove me there and returned home to watch her favourite tv programs. I was immediately greeted by a few people whom I’ve not seen for a while and then I went to the bar to buy a drink. I had a pleasant evening and I actually spent very little money. Everybody wanted to buy Shirley Anne a drink and would not let me reciprocate! It is nice to be accepted and greeted like that. During the evening a girl who was chatting to some mutual friends was intrigued with me. It seems she didn’t know my history but because somebody had mentioned my transition she wanted to know more. I have no problem with that as long as I am treated respectfully and what I say is in confidence. We left the bar and chatted outside at one of the tables there. She thought that I was a lovely person, genuine, sensitive and kind. Now I am not sure why she saw all that in me having only just met me. Perhaps I ‘radiate’ love, who knows? I discovered that we did have something in common, she was a Christian too. We chatted about that. She is a nice girl and I think I have made a friend in her. She invited me back to her apartment to share a bottle of wine together with a guy I know very well who lives in the same building. They have a kind of brother/sister relationship and nothing more than that. Simply good friends. I had to decline the offer for a couple of reasons, one, it was very late in the evening and two, I’d had far too much drink already! They departed and I walked home. It must have been around midnight when I get indoors and I sat for a spell at my computer. E decided to go to bed but I opened my emails and received a lovely message from my friend Geraldine who lives in New Jersey. She sent me a link to a piece of music from ‘The Lion King’ which she had recently been to see in New York. I was in tears as I listened to it and found myself praising God, I was so happy. Life is good isn’t it? Oh yes, there are troubles but life is good. Anyhow I must have nodded off to sleep sitting there on the sofa and when I looked at the clock it was four-thirty in the morning! I wasn’t going to bother getting into bed but I changed my mind and eventually did so at six! I was up and about again by ten. I had planned to be at home today anyhow so that E and I could do some jobs together in the house. We got those out-of-the-way and had a late lunch. She has gone shopping with her mum as she does on a Thursday. As I write this she has just returned! Looks like I will be bringing in the groceries now so I will sign off.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on July 28, 2010
So today I returned to the address I went to yesterday and did more work. Having been paid handsomely I went home and told E that we were going out for lunch. No objections there! We haven’t dined out for more than two weeks so it was a bit of a treat for us. I am going to be at home tomorrow to do some work there for a change. I have postponed other work until Friday and it seems I have a humdinger of a job to do then. I will be going to the pub tonight for a change, something I haven’t done for ages. I need it, I’ve earned it and I just want to do it! I’ll catch up on things tomorrow………….lol
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on July 27, 2010
Over the last couple of months I have found myself without much occupational work with only jobs to do in and around the house. This is quite a change to my usual activity and I enjoy it. In fact I could get used to it! I have had work as an electrician over the weeks but they have not amounted to much. Today however was different and tomorrow will be more of the same…..hard work! I suppose it seems harder because I haven’t been as active in my electrical work as I usually am. There is a danger of becoming too used to not doing much and that would make me feel inclined not to do anything at all. I am getting to that stage in life where I should be thinking of retirement. I am old enough and I am not really desperate for the extra money but I think I would find it hard to do. The beauty is that I can pick and choose which work I will take on so that I don’t have to overdo things. I am my worst enemy though and often take on work because I hate letting people down. I should know when to say no. There will come a day when I will not be able to do anything so perhaps continuing to work, not too hard, is beneficial, if only for my sanity!
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on July 26, 2010
This morning I went to do a job but was back within half an hour. I had no other work so I decided to go check the greenhouse plants with E. We walked about the garden and there was a feeling that one gets just before it starts to rain. I mentioned to E that if she wanted to do anything in the garden it would be better to do it today rather than tomorrow when rain is forecast to fall. She asked what sort of thing I had in mind but I told her I had nothing in mind. However as we walked she mentioned something about the neighbour’s sycamore tree overhanging our garden with its seed pods ready to drop. Earlier in the year we had two of our neighbour’s trees lopped and pruned back because they had spread a good distance and were overhanging our lawn. Now this sycamore tree is but a small one but they do grow rather quickly and this one, along with yet another is threatening to do the same. I said it should be pruned back but to do it properly we need to erect a ladder, something we don’t have at the moment as our eldest son has borrowed it. Nevertheless she went to collect the pruning shears so I was obliged to cut at least the lowest branches, which I did. Before I knew it we were cutting back three wild rose bushes, the type which spread out and intermingle with every other plant making removal very difficult. We discovered a couple of blackberry bushes doing the same thing so they came out too. After pruning them down to ground level we dug out their roots. This was in itself hard to do as they were deep within the foliage of several bushes and trees. We managed to do it though. Next we removed the sprawling ivy from on top of the wall separating our garden from our neighbour’s garden. The ivy grows on their side and to be quite frank it is an absolute pain. I pushed it so far back over the wall that our neighbour would have to blind not to see it. They really ought to cut it off at its roots. They seem not to be much interested in gardening as they employ a gardener to look after things. Their garden is very large and I suppose what they don’t see they are not bothered about. Perhaps we should mention it to them. I digress. By this time I could feel rain beginning to fall so I suggested we go indoors. We had done what we intended and there is little else we can do anyhow. Although we have plans for the ground behind the holly tree I wrote about in yesterday’s post that work is fairly substantial and we don’t have the time this week to make a start on it. It wasn’t long before the rain came down and for a couple of hours it has been raining heavily. Tomorrow’s weather isn’t looking much better either but I don’t mind……I’m not that keen on ‘gardening’ anyhow….LOL
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on July 25, 2010
After my last post E and I decided to go into the garden, the rear garden and ‘prune’ the holly tree. In one corner of the garden stands a holly tree. Of late it has begun to spread itself sideways and was in need of pruning back. However, behind the tree, to the sides of the tree were other plants that had become, shall we say, forgotten. We began at the front and removed a few branches revealing many more that we had to cut back. Having done that we discovered or better still re-discovered the half-dozen gooseberry plants which were struggling to find any light. Besides the gooseberry plants we found blackberry plants, which as you know grow all over the place if left, nettles and other shrubs. On top of all those we found a couple of ivy plants which had taken over the side wall. It took quite some time to remove all of that, at least to ground level. We will need to dig out the roots of course but since we are going to extend the hard-standing area on which the new greenhouse is standing that can be done when we lay the hardcore in a week or so. we are planning on having another greenhouse, a larger one than that which we bought earlier in the year. We were left with a huge pile of branches which we have had to store away on the last piece of available land at the rear of the ‘new’ garage. That garage is at present full of the branches we cut from our earlier escapades when we had trees lopped. The process of turning those branches into wood chippings is an ongoing one. Whilst we were moving the branches to their new home as it were I suggested to E that we could have a barbecue. No contest and as soon as said I found myself taking the barbecue trolley out of the garage (the other garage) and getting it ready. Having done that we continued to clear away all the rubbish we had removed from around the holly tree. Soon we were cooking burgers, sausages and steaks and settled down to a well-earned lunch with wine and cola. I was drinking the wine! After the lovely lunch we continued with the garden. I mowed the lawn, yes, I finally got around to doing that, and E cleared away some more rubbish. When the lawn was done I did some work in the greenhouse erecting a frame to carry the weight of the tomato and cucumber plants. Have you any idea how much those plants need support as they grow? Next season we will be more prepared. So it’s been quite a busy day at the old ranch and I have found that I have enjoyed it all, especially the bottle of wine. Unfortunately that has all gone but I do have more (LOL)!
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on July 25, 2010
Last month was a scorcher, the sun shone for most of the month and we had very little rain. All things come with a price though, the water reservoirs suffered resulting at the beginning of this month, July, a hose pipe ban. The strange thing is it has hardly stopped raining this month so far! The hose pipe ban is still in place and as far as I know everybody is complying. Before the ban I spent almost every evening watering the lawn using a hose pipe because the grass was in a very poor condition due to constant sunshine and no rain. The lawn hasn’t suffered from the ban because the day following the announcement it rained and has continued to do so almost every day since. The result is that we have a lawn which needs mowing more frequently! It’s a no win situation, I’m either watering it (when I’m allowed) or cutting it (when it stops raining!). Well it looks as if we are in for a dry day so I will be cutting the lawn once it has dried enough to do so, which will be this afternoon I guess.
I got my good night’s sleep after a stint on the treadmill although I had but five hours of it. I have been up and about for three hours and it is now ten in the morning. I can hear E milling about in the kitchen whilst my youngest son is still in bed. He spends much time there, as younger people do. After breakfast and sorting out some washing for the machine I spent some time reading (Scripture) and now I am on here (LOL). I have just found out that I won £10 on the Lotto……..well that’s better than nothing I suppose but it won’t change my lifestyle will it? Speaking of lifestyles, would winning a massive sum of money change your lifestyle much? Would you go mad and spend it all on a lavish lifestyle or would you just enjoy your existing lifestyle and indulge in a few luxuries? I’d probably give most of it away but keep enough to enable me to do the things I feel like doing occasionally without the worry of not being able to afford it. Well maybe next time eh? Have a nice day.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on July 24, 2010
When I got up this morning I felt more tired than when I went to bed. Knowing that an extra lie-in would be to no advantage I continued to dress and go downstairs for breakfast. I had no plans to do anything and by and large that’s more or less what happened, I did nothing. Of course by nothing I mean work of any kind. I have indulged in other things, reading, watching television, checking the Internet and emails, playing guitar and preparing food. All run-of-the-mill stuff. It has been a very quiet day which was much welcomed. I plan to exercise on the treadmill later and to give my body an excuse for sleep.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on July 23, 2010
Today has been somewhat different from days of late in that I have been quite busy at work. My first job was in an adjacent township about eight or nine miles away and was soon finished. The second job was back in my home town of Southport. This second job required me to drive past my old church building, something I do regularly but something I hadn’t done for a couple of weeks before today. I was shocked to see that half of the building has been demolished! It seems that the building is being completely demolished. The church office was always located in recent years, in an adjacent row of old houses and it is now up for sale. So the church has disbanded or moved to pastures new, I do not know which. The building itself was erected in the late 1800′s and it is a shame that such an old building should be demolished. I drove on to my job and past the place later for a last look on my way back home. I thought no more about it until now but I find that I am having deep feelings of loss. I spent about ten years as a member there and it was there that I was baptised by full immersion. I left the congregation almost twelve years ago now for personal reasons and at that time with tears. I never did find another fellowship and in a way I think that was meant to be because I have learned more about my faith and how I am supposed to live my life according to God’s will, something I now understand wasn’t possible in that church. Nevertheless I do feel a sense of loss, I think about my brothers and sisters and what has happened to them and what will happen to them. There are many things wrong in the Church, many wrong doctrines and practices and certainly wrong attitudes to God’s Word. I won’t preach here save to say the way is written in the Word but not many follow what is said there. However believers are all my brothers and sisters and I love them for it.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on July 22, 2010
After a late night ‘run’ on my treadmill I had a really good night’s sleep. My intention this morning was to get up early and go into town before it became too crowded. I like to shop when it isn’t too busy. I have never much liked being in a crowd anyhow, preferring the peace and quiet of having just a few people about. Of course I don’t always get that choice. During my working week though it is better to shop before work rather than later when everyone else is doing the same. As it happened I had no work today so shopping early made sense in case I was offered work later. Such are the plans of humankind….I still have no work today and it is now mid-afternoon! I do have one tomorrow though. I digress. My reason for the shopping expedition was to simply buy a couple of lightweight Summer skirts that I could wear to work having worn out two that I had recently. I wanted something in brown and one in green, not plain colours but with those colours in the patterns if you understand. However July is not the time to buy summer wear it seems, many items have already been sold so it makes choosing a little more difficult. I didn’t wish to go roaming around town either so I browsed in only a couple of stores. I did find two lovely floral print skirts which I simply had to buy to add to my collection of simply lovely floral print skirts. They were not however brown or green! Whilst in the store I treated myself to a pair of loafers for work and a pair of wedge-heeled sandals. I also purchased two more ‘Alice Bands’. I came home with £95 less in my account and still I didn’t buy the skirts I wanted. Sounds just like me.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on July 21, 2010
I feel like doing something new but I’ve no idea what that should be. Could be an age thing perhaps, who knows? It’s just that I get so bored doing the same old things. There is a lot to be said for routine, stability and security in our lives but there are times when I feel like throwing caution to the wind and doing something that goes against the grain, like today for instance. It is a bright and sunny morning wasted on work and staying indoors but these days this is usually my lot. E has the hot-air balloon ride yet to take and promises to take me along but when that is supposed to be I don’t know. That would be something different. This year I have no holidays planned, mainly due to the work on the house, if nothing else we have to be here whilst the work is being done. At this moment we are waiting for the groundwork to be resumed and that could be any time. Perhaps it’s just me. I try to make the most of things no matter what they are and I do enjoy my life and I am happy but it would be nice to do something new occasionally.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on July 20, 2010
I had a call this morning from an older couple who live in an apartment not far away from where I live. Evidently I had been recommended to them by another client of mine as being a good and reliable electrician. I thought that was nice and that my services were being appreciated but I have always thought good workmanship has its rewards and not only from those who appreciate it but also it gives me the reward of knowing that I’ve done a good job. What started as a simple replacement of two lights turned out to be something less straight-forward but in the end I did it and was rewarded financially. Rewards are nice to receive when they are unexpected I think. Being a person who believes in God and His Word I am instructed not to boast to all and sundry about my activities regarding good deeds else I will lose my reward in Heaven. This means that if I do a good deed and people pat me on the back and tell me what a kind person I am and if I make sure everyone knows about my deeds then I am receiving my reward here. All good works and deeds should be done without shouting about them on the rooftops. I see quite often on the television people who have run this marathon or completed a challenge for some charity or another. Often ‘celebrities’ will be found doing this especially in large organised events like ‘Red Nose day’, ‘Save the Children’ and ‘Feed the World’ music gigs. They shout aloud their achievements and the achievements of others and I suppose feel very proud. I think these events are good things but it is a shame that good deeds are not done in secret as they are supposed to be.
I sometimes ask people what they think will happen to them when they die. Those who are believers in Scripture, even if only as a token idea, will say that they think they will be alright because they have been good people. Scripture, God’s word unfortunately says different:-
Ephesians 2:8-9
‘For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.’
So you can see that even the best ‘do gooder’ on earth isn’t rewarded for being just that, it takes something else. Worth thinking about?
As believers we are expected to do good works but not for gain, we cannot earn salvation.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on July 19, 2010
Did you ever build ‘self-assembly’ furniture? Aside from the observation that it cannot assemble itself (LOL), the task is sometimes quite daunting. Common sense prevails and hopefully at the end of the job you are not left with an extra nut, bolt, screw etc.. Last year, or it may have been the one before, I cannot quite remember, I ‘loaned’ my garden furniture and a portable barbecue trolley to our eldest son and his wife as we were not using it. This furniture is very sturdily built and can be left outside throughout the year if so desired. The trolley however is best left either indoors or covered with a waterproof sheet. My son and his wife looked after the furniture but eventually bought a set for themselves. When I delivered the furniture it was already assembled as it had been used at home and I transported it in an empty van. However when my son wanted to return my furniture he had dismantled it to make room for his own furniture then brought mine back dismantled. That happened a couple of months ago and today I finally got round to re-assembling it all, without a plan. There is a large table, two bench seats, two armchairs, the trolley and all the nuts, bolts and washers came in a plastic bag. After an hour or so I had them all re-assembled and stored in one of the garages until they are required. At this point in time we do not have a hard-standing patio area in the garden so when it is in use the furniture has to stand on the grass for the day and returned indoors later. E an I don’t have barbecues often, not like we once did years ago when we built a patio and our own barbecue. Whilst I have been doing that job E has been busy painting the walls of the small cloakroom we have downstairs. We tired of the colour so she used a magnolia paint. It will need a couple of coats though as the previous colour was a dark pink. The room looks brighter already and she’s only done it once! I was going to do it but she insisted on doing it herself. The problem is she cannot stand too long because of her ailment so she has very much taken her time doing it. At least it gives her an interest. I sometimes wonder how she must cope being at home for the most part and having little or nothing to do. One of the reasons we go dining out is to give her something of interest in her life. Another good thing is the greenhouse I bought a few months back. It has given her something else to keep her occupied and she has grown and is growing various things like tomatoes, cucumbers, strawberries, peppers, celery, even carrots and potatoes (outdoors of course). She planted beetroot and spinach in a couple of old purpose-built flowerbed units and I planted some turnip in the spare one. It is quite amazing what we actually do grow in the greenhouse and garden. Apart from the things I’ve just mentioned we have two apple trees, four plum trees, several gooseberry bushes and a raspberry bush. There is also lots of mint and some rhubarb to be had. Almost self-sufficient, not really but if nothing else it all helps ease the burden on my purse!
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on July 18, 2010
I was just reading some of my poems (My Poems 3) and this one stood out:-
I’m not a girl who worries much
As some would likely say
Despite the many awkward things that happen in my day
There was a time, now long since passed
When I would anxious be,
I’d think about the many things that sometimes bothered me.
But as I look back to those times
I’m often thinking that,
How foolish I was then and grin, just like a Cheshire cat.
‘It is your age’, the people say
When I relate those tales,
‘You’re older and much wiser now than in your former days’.
But now the thing that bothers me
Is one thing that I lack,
It’s confidence to realise the worry won’t come back!’
Copyright Shirley Anne 26 June 2003
In the poem I am talking about life in general and how I faced times of trial, not that I have been unfortunate to have any real tribulations but life can at times be worrying if we let it. I reflected upon my attitude now as compared to when I wrote the poem in 2003 and I find that it has changed somewhat. I have concerns about life on this planet as I’m sure most people have if only occasionally. The difference now is that I do not worry about the future or what it might hold. All things will be as they are meant to be. We may think we are changing things but in reality what we do is planned that way. We are not in control of the final outcome, and there is a final outcome. God has a plan and He is in ultimate control. At present, on this planet we have an adversary who is in control, if we allow him. A constant battle between good and evil exists in our lives and it isn’t just down to human thinking. We do have a future and that future depends on our own attitude to our Maker. I rest in His love, His security for when He is on my side no-one can stand against me. I have a future, I have that faith which is evidenced in the confidence of knowing it as a fact. I don’t idly wish or hope things will work out, that doesn’t matter. What matters is the fact that I know in my heart that His will, will be done. I am not a girl who worries much………….if at all.
Shirley Anne
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