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Posted by Shirley Anne on May 18, 2012

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At a clients house the other day I was asked why I was acting so cheerfully despite the problems I was having doing a certain job for her. My reply was that it wouldn’t make any difference whether I was annoyed or not, the problem would still remain and I would still have to get round it! I told her that I don’t get upset or annoyed with pretty much everything these days because if I did it would only be me who suffered but there are still some things that I find annoying. What is the point in getting all worked up over things you have no control over though? It just isn’t worth it. I have to say at this point that I have a page on this site dedicated to ‘Annoying things’, those things which indeed do annoy me at times but the main thing is I don’t get upset about them as perhaps I once did. Annoying they may still be but more of an irritation and something we all have to live with and endure at times. There is nothing wrong about having things that annoy, it’s how we react to them that matters. One of my pet dislikes in life are bad drivers, those who cannot handle their vehicles safely, responsibly or skilfully and those who think the rules apply to everyone else but themselves. I dislike aggressive drivers and those who think they own the road. Whilst out driving recently I came across a section of road, about a mile of it, that had a revised speed limit imposed upon it reducing the speed from 40 to 30 miles per hour. The change has been well signposted and reminding signs are dotted along the route affected so there is no excuse for disobedience. The road itself is a major trunk route between my town and the next one some seven miles away and is quite busy at certain times of the day. I observed the speed limit as I drove through the section of road affected but was being tail-gated by a larger vehicle whilst doing so. As the speed limit reverted to 40 miles per hour I increased my speed accordingly but the opportunity to overtake me was there at this point and the following driver couldn’t get passed me quickly enough. As he overtook my vehicle he had to exceed the 40 mph restriction and he then accelerated away at something like 20 mph faster than I was travelling which was 40 mph. The sad thing was that I caught up with him a half mile ahead as he was stuck in a queue of traffic at the next junction. I was in the inside lane driving through and he was in the outside lane to turn right. The point was he had ignored the speed limit and it hadn’t made any difference at all but it could have resulted in someone being injured through his negligence. That sort of driving annoys me but as I am unable to do anything about such incidences I never let it get to me. I won’t allow someone elses bad habits ruin my day. I got the awkward and annoying job done through persistence, perseverance and by having a jovial attitude to it all.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on April 27, 2012

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I’m too busy right now to see you,
I’ve too much to do today,
If only each day had more hours,
I might have some time left to play.
How is it that each precious moment
Is filled with our own selfish things
Not wishing to spend time with others,
Pursuing our own empty dreams?
For what is a life that is lonely
Bereft of companions and friends?
A schedule whose pages are empty,
Devoid of all meaning, it ends.
So make time and space for each other,
Defer things that stand in your way,
Live life to the fullest and savour,
Those friendships before it’s too late!
Copyright Shirley Anne 4 Dec 2002 Poem listed in My Poems 5 above
It isn’t my attitude to life but it does seem to be for others I know. Living in a community, amongst family and friends, if we have any, can be difficult at times. Everyone has an agenda or an excuse. Sometimes we don’t see the need others might have for us or maybe we think they get in the way of our plans. I mean what plans are so important that we don’t have time for others? Scripture tells us and we are told only too often by others that we should love our neighbour. That doesn’t just mean those living next-door but everyone else on this planet is our neighbour, anyone we come across in life is our neighbour. If we have no time for anyone else what are we living for? There are matters to which we must attend to obviously but they don’t take up our complete life do they? Take time for one another, bear each other’s burdens if we can. I speak as a Christian but the truth of the matter remains the same for everyone.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on March 11, 2012

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LUCK….. noun
1.
the
force that seems to operate for good or ill in a person’s life, as in shaping circumstances, events, or opportunities: With my luck I’ll probably get
pneumonia.
2.
good fortune; advantage or success, considered as the result of chance: He had no luck finding work.
3.
a combination of circumstances, events, etc., operating by chance to bring good or ill to a person: She’s had
nothing but bad luck all year.
4.
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How many times in your day do you hear the word ‘luck’? The word is probably most usually used to wish good fortune to another person who is about to embark on a journey or some event which will challenge them. We wish people good luck when they are about to have an examination or an interview. Really speaking the word used in this way is totally without meaning. It’s as if we are invoking some hidden force to shape the outcome in their favour. In the dictionary descriptions above the third explanation probably describes the word most accurately. There are no forces we can conjure up to force an outcome in our favour, things happen by chance or by design. Most often outcomes are determined by capability or gifting. Whether we get that job is sometimes dependent not only on our skill but also how and if we are accepted, it isn’t luck, it is a chain of events. The word shouldn’t really exist but it does. We use words like these to describe things we don’t fully understand, we might as well say it’s magic, another word often used for the same reason. The pastor in a church I once attended said there was no such thing as luck, I think he was right. There are such things as unforseen events and many things can work in our favour if we do what should be done to achieve that end. If we fail it is because we didn’t quite reach the mark this time or other events got in the way. We cannot predict the future but we can only hope it will be good for us. Luck hasn’t anything to do with it.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on March 6, 2012

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Throughout my life I have been ready to listen to the other persons point of view and often argued with them over it! Sometimes my view would be taken as being right and at other times theirs. Quite often after deliberation I have been convinced that my views were indeed wrong. This is how we learn. Sometimes, knowing that my point of view was correct, I found it difficult being the diplomat but being the diplomat I had to be. Being right is not about being superior and it isn’t about gaining admiration, one has to be diplomatic because sometimes we get it wrong too! I know I get it wrong sometimes but I also know I am right sometimes too. As we grow and mature we come to know the difference between the possible and the probable, between what is being suggested and proffered as truth and we begin to realise that what some people say is not what it seems to be and we become cynical. Over the years I have found myself more cynical of many things and I am prepared to say so when appropriate. I try to be diplomatic if I can but some things I find so ridiculous I have to make a stand. There is nothing wrong in cynicism, it shows a mind that is not ready to accept the ridiculous. In a way cynicism is a form of diplomacy, it shows the recipient that you know that they know that you disapprove without having to say so directly. Hopefully it is a weapon against stupidity and confidence tricksters too. ‘Yeah, I’m ready to believe that as they say, you are not kidding me’ is often better than a forthright contradiction and has the same result. There are many ‘scams’ nowadays, people ready to swindle us in one way or another and I think having a sometimes cynical attitude is a good defence. It is far better to dismiss things and the reflect on the decision at leisure than to readily accept something that may prove to be a wrong choice, well I think so anyway. Cynicism can be humorous too. It all depends on the information and the situation. It can turn something around on its head and prove to be disarming. Being totally cynical of course is wrong. Some things we must learn to accept, life has its problems but not everything is false nor untrue, we just have to learn the ability to discern which is which.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on February 16, 2012

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‘Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexatious to the spirit’, is a line quoted from Desiderata, a work written anonymously. I have always admired that work as being a cross between advice and common sense. Loosely it is religious in nature but is advisory for those seeking a quiet and peaceful existence. I come across many different people during my days away from home but of all the types of people there are I think those who are loud and aggressive are the most disturbing to my peace. Some people shout because they are hard of hearing and some shout because they are insecure. Others simply shout because they are aggressive and too outspoken, they elevate themselves above others if allowed to do so and make a fuss to get their own way. They are usually the confrontational amongst us, ready to shout others down without regard for their feelings. Most of us if we are honest, prefer the quiet life and only make a fuss when it seems necessary. I have been in places whereby my morning or afternoon has been somewhat spoiled by the actions of others. There are limits to what behaviour is acceptable when we are aggrieved or when we conduct ourselves in society but I see this unwritten code ignored by many. Whenever I am confronted by a loud and aggressive person I first try to calm down the situation but will exit from their presence if their bad behaviour persists. Life is too short to have to deal with loudmouths. Why should I get upset because of the insensitivity and loudness of another? My past has been dotted with such people over the years and at times I have been left crying after the actions of loud and aggressive people. It didn’t help that I was timid and shy, in fact that made the encounters even worse. These days I stand my ground but I would still rather avoid this type of person altogether.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on February 8, 2012
They say there is nothing new under the sun and for the most part that is true. It says as much in Scripture. Anyhow, I was thinking a lot about changes in life more than re-visiting old paths. I am currently getting over some minor illness and when I looked into the mirror on Monday I saw quite a dramatic change in my appearance. After a serious bout of laughing which caused me some abdominal pain I have to say, I finally managed to apply my make-up. I had made an appointment to see a doctor and was getting dressed for the day. I remember a movie from a few years back called Police Academy, I think it was the second in the series where lieutenant Mauser had lost his eyebrows because of a prank played on him. One of his side-kicks set about making some adjustments to his appearance and when we, the audience got to see what he’d done it was hilarious. He had eyebrows pencilled on, eye make-up and false eye lashes. At first he went ballistic but after a few seconds he smiled and said, ‘Oh, I don’t know, I quite like it!’ Or words to that effect. He certainly looked different! Getting back to my make-up I began to think of what I would look like if I changed my usual war paint regime. I do alter my make-up occasionally, depending on what I will be doing that day. I have one style I use in my working day and maybe another if I am out for the evening or at a function. I also change my make-up according to the season. Now all this is fine but I began to think of other changes I might make if I’d a mind to do so and what I would look like if I went through with them, like a completely new hairstyle, a fringe, short hair, that sort of thing. I like my hair to be long, I always have and I would never cut it short. Presently it reaches well below the shoulder line and well on its way to the bosom but it has taken a very long time to reach there. Should I cut it for any reason it would take years to get back to length. E has wonderful hair in that hers grows back quite quickly after being cut but it tends to be greasy and needs washing two or three times weekly just for that reason alone. However, I think greasy hair is often healthier despite it needing more attention. My hair tends to be dry so it benefits by not being washed too frequently, a little awkward when trying to keep it clean too! All these things are quite superficial though and we can make changes as and when we feel we need a change. Looking at my slightly disfigured face after it had swollen made me wonder how I would cope if my face was like that permanently. This is something new that I would not like to experience of course but for some people it isn’t a choice is it? It is all vanity of course and we have grown up thinking that looking good, looking perfect, is the only acceptable thing. I never leave my bedroom without my make-up on but what about the poor souls who are so disfigured that they cannot change what they look like and have to face the world as such? Beauty isn’t skin deep as we are told but that is the way most people treat it. Beauty is inside a person and reveals itself by what they say and do. Something new? This is the sort of beauty I want. I may be nice and perhaps attractive to look at but it is what is in my heart that counts.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on January 31, 2012

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Whatever age we are we will have experienced something in our lives and obviously the older we are the more we will have done so. I was thinking about my life and the choices I have made over the years. Many of us would admit to having regretting something that happened in our lives, an unfulfilled desire, a wrong choice, a failure, a lack of courage, a wrong decision, a bad relationship, it could be almost anything but there will be something. I can think of many things that I’ve regretted in my past but one that I feel I could have seen through but lacked the confidence to do so was to transition whilst still young. It is easy to re-assess our lives and past mistakes afterwards of course and we can all say ‘if only’. One thing is for certain though, had I done so many other things would not have happened. I most certainly would not have married E or had children. I suppose my career would have been vastly different too. I wouldn’t have done the many things I ended up doing nor doing them with the people in my life. I wonder what my life would have been like today had I done things differently in the past. I have no regrets regarding the life I’ve had but as it turned out even that life hasn’t been perfect. I had the power to change things but that didn’t prevent my life turning out as it did. Whatever choices I made had no real influence on the outcome. If my choices had all worked out then my life would have been different so even if I made what I thought to be the right choices really only served to change the course of my life. I had no real control. No matter when I transitioned what followed would have been entirely different from any other time I decided to do so. Looking at life this way you could say there was an unlimited number of possibilities any one of which would have been right. Through it all though I would have been the same person inside. When I transitioned it only changed my physical appearance. If my life had been different it would similarly only change my circumstances and not myself. This is another reason for not regretting my life as a whole but only perhaps certain things in it. Can any of us say that we have made the wrong choices in life? At the time we made them it must have felt the right thing to do. We can only regret doing something because it didn’t turn out as we expected.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on January 30, 2012

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Sounds easy doesn’t it? I want to challenge my readers to make someone happy this week, someone who perhaps isn’t close to you or someone who comes into your life for whatever reason. Some of my readers will be doing this already and probably without thinking about it, others may find it a challenge. Not everybody appreciates what we do for them I know but it shouldn’t stop us trying should it? I personally do not like surprises but I do like being treated well, that is respectably. Sometimes in my working day I get unexpected rewards, for example a bottle of wine over and above my fee. Little gestures like that are pleasant to receive and they do make me happy. It is nice to know that we are appreciated now and then. Making someone happy doesn’t have to be a well thought out event, indeed it is far better when we are spontaneous for then it is likely to be more sincere I feel. Small things go a long way. Be kind and considerate when out in the world and always be ready to help those in difficulty. A lot of people live out their lives aggressively and are often selfish with it too. Some never wish to ‘get involved’ in situations and others are quick to jump in and help. Having the right attitude to life and indeed to others makes for a better person in my estimation. I will go out into the world today and forget what I’ve written here but then I know I do not need to be reminded to be nice to others because it is in my nature to be that way. I know in my heart that I will be ready to make someone happy if the opportunity arises because it makes me feel better too! I am not suggesting to my readers that they are anything else but nice people. I only suggest they might remind themselves that they are. I hope all my readers have a happy and wonderful week and along the way make someone else feel happy too.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on January 20, 2012

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I don’t know if my fellow bloggers on WordPress have the same problem but for those who are on WordPress, have you noticed how long it takes to open the page for a new post? I am often kept waiting before the new post page turns up. During that time I am thinking about the post I am about to write and also getting a little impatient for it to open. Having arrived in such a state for this post I am wondering sometimes if it is all worth the wait. Probably many of my readers might be thinking the same but I hope not. I do try to write about interesting things and for me the most interesting things are to do with my life and I am sure other people’s lives too. We do all live out our lives in a similar way except that we will have differing views, interests and lifestyles but all of them interesting in their own way. So when I write about things it is only from my own standpoint and usually because they apply to me but equally they could apply to anyone’s life and often do. I could write only about specific things, specialising in one subject as many do who write blogs and indeed I do have such a blog myself (http://wwwminkyweaselsmusings.blogspot.com/) but this blog has no such theme and is open to any subject. I think that there is nothing wrong in specialist subject blog themes but they do limit who will read and comment. My other blog has a few readers, not many but I know that they are interested in the subject. This blog however doesn’t specialise and consequently attracts many more readers. I refuse to specialise on any particular subject on this blog but hope visitors will be encouraged to visit my other sites too. I write on my blogs for one reason only and that is to reach out to others. I have nothing to lose but everything to gain from anything I do online and all that I do is merely an extension of what I do in real life. I am grateful for any response both here and in my daily life of course and hope that whatever I write proves interesting to those who make the effort to visit me here or on my other sites.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on January 8, 2012

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I had the day to myself on Friday as I was released from my jury service until Monday. Not wanting to let the opportunity pass by to enjoy myself for the day I invited E out for an extended lunch, well they are always extended when I dine out. I love the experience of wining and dining out and generally socialising and it is nice to do that with friends and family but it is nicest when in the company with someone very special. In my case that would be my ex partner E whom I love dearly. I take the opportunity to dine out with her as often as I can so that not only do I get to enjoy myself but that she can enjoy life more than she usually does. As is the case I often ask her if she is happy so that I can help her to be happy as much as I can. She is hard to reach sometimes but I persevere for I don’t want her to feel unhappy if I can do something to change that. I wonder sometimes what makes her tick, what it is she wants out of life because I feel she is missing out on things when she should be getting the most out of life. I know she enjoys her outings with me but she is often reluctant to show that. So it was that we both went to one of our favourite haunts in the next town on Friday and had a carvery lunch with dessert and drinks. I polished off a full bottle of red wine and later had a liqueur coffee with a cream topping, similar to the picture on the right. We both had soft drinks too, she was drinking Pepsi-Cola and I was drinking the diet version in-between my sips of wine. I like the taste of the cola following the wine and sometimes I mix the two in the same glass when I am tired of drinking the wine neat, which isn’t often (LOL). We arrived at the restaurant/pub at around 1.30 and we left just before 5.00 stopping off at the supermarket for some rum, whisky and cream. I wanted to enjoy another glass or two of a liqueur coffee! I am off to work on Saturday morning which will be yesterday by the time you read this so I will not be able to have a drink, if I want one, until late in the day. I probably won’t indulge as I value having a healthy liver which needs a break now and then! I might have a drink today, Sunday but then nothing until the end of the week when I have finished my jury service. Mind you, I may get on a case that lasts longer than this coming week but in any event I will enjoy a drink or two at the weekend. I might even surprise the staff at my local pub by paying them the first visit for over six weeks. I love life and I love people who are prepared to enjoy it with me. Life is too short not to enjoy it.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on January 7, 2012

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I don’t have to remind my readers just how windy it has been these last few days. There has been little or no respite. Of all the weather elements wind is the one that I really dislike. Rain can be dealt with by using an umbrella or waterproof clothing but the wind sometimes defeats the use of an umbrella. Snow isn’t a problem until it becomes too deep or until it turns to compressed ice but having the correct footwear helps considerably and of course nobody moans when the sun is shining. It is the driving wind which gets me down. There is an old saying which has to apply and it goes like this: Whether the weather be fine or whether the weather be not, whether the weather be cold or whether the weather be hot, we’ll weather the weather, whatever the weather, whether we like it or not. A good spelling exercise for children but having an element of wisdom too. It really doesn’t matter what we think about the weather, nothing we can say will change it so we have to endure it when it is bad and be grateful when it is fine. Although I have been feeling somewhat windswept these last few days I know it won’t last, there will be better days ahead and so it is the same in life. We can be feeling down and thinking the whole world is against us. We can be feeling the pinch in these hard times. We can be experiencing bad relationships or having none at all. Many things in life can make us feel not at our best but they do help to build us up and give us the strength to go on. Wind or no wind, it doesn’t really matter but like the wind we must plod on regardless. Put on a smile, grin and bear it for things will surely get better and so will you.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on January 5, 2012

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I was watching Sister Act 2 on Monday afternoon. Ok, ok, I was bored but having seen the film once before and knowing the story made no difference, I like the sentimental things in life, besides I had nothing else to do. For those who may not know the story it is about a nightclub singer who goes back for the second time to the aid of a Catholic run school to help them with their pupils. Part of the story involves the trials of the schoolchildren in their quest to enter the interstate singing competition for the best choir, which incidentally they won. Well it is a movie. Just prior to the choir going on stage they were watching one of the other contenders and began to lose what confidence they had when the choir leader, the nightclub singer played by Whoopi Goldberg, gives them a small lecture about not giving in to the fear of losing. Paraphrased, she told them that nothing in this world was ever achieved without effort and if they were to run away from problems in life they would continue to do so all their lives. How true a statement is that? Throughout our lives we are challenged and tested but if we give in to defeat we will never achieve our true potential in life. This is true for anything that presents itself as a challenge before us. The most successful people in the world have a stream of failures behind them but because they persisted they finally won through and became successful. The motto should be, let no-one stand in your way, let nothing defeat you without you try your best to overcome and to reach your goal in life, the desires of your heart. You must stand your ground and not be swayed by anyone else.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on January 4, 2012

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I remember about 45 years ago when I was driving through Birmingham on my way, together with my parents, taking them to visit my grandma. She was living in Edgebaston at that time. It was a time when there was no such thing as a SatNav so it was a case of map reading and asking for directions as we got nearer or when we lost our way. Even in those days driving through Birmingham was a nightmare especially if driving through the ‘Bull Ring‘. It was easy to take the wrong turnoff the roundabout. I hadn’t been driving for too long and found it quite easy getting lost! We needed to stop and ask the way which we did. We asked several people for directions and none of them were caucasian. They were either ethnic Caribbean, African or Asian people that we came across. I remember saying to my parents, ‘Don’t white people live here any longer’? So even as far back as 45 years it seemed that there were more people other than native caucasian people living in some places in the country. Obviously far more live amongst us now and indeed some towns have practically no Caucasians living in them at all. When driving through Preston last Sunday I noticed the town was filled with people from other ethnic origins, so much so it felt as though we were in another country. Can we still call this the same England as it was long ago? We, like many countries in the world, have become a multi-cultural and multi-ethnic country. If we can all live together in peace and harmony that is wonderful but unfortunately this ideology is hard to achieve due to the prejudices of some people. Multiculturalism has been the cause of many disturbances and unrest within our society as a result. I am not about to preach about religion at this point nor am I advocating racialism but one thing I remember from Scripture is the story of the Israelites and their acquisition of the land that God had promised them after their forty years of wandering in the desert through their disobedience. Before they could take the land the were told by God to drive out all the Peoples that were there else they would be a thorn in their side but they failed to do that and consequently a thorn in their side they became. The descendents of some of those people (the Philistines) still live in the area today. They are the Palestinians. So it isn’t always desirable to live in mixed cultural societies simply because of the differences between us. I get the feeling that this country is slowly being taken from us because we are so passive in not stemming the tide of immigration. Suggestions have been made to lower the immigration rate and indeed laws are planned to be in place this year to do just that but are we closing the barn door after the horse has bolted? The future of this land may not be in danger but on the other hand it could very well be.
Shirley Anne
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Posted by Shirley Anne on January 1, 2012

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Being as it is the start of another year I am wondering just how long it will take me to get used to writing 2012 instead of 2011? In the past I have taken a few days to get used to the change to the year number when writing cheques or letters and such but I have never had a problem with the month change. To me, the first day of the year is no different than it was yesterday, is no different to all the other days but it sort of interrupts a routine. The daily name changes and the monthly name changes seem more finite than a simple number change at the beginning of what we accept as a new year, so we initially make mistakes. Although today is no different from any other day it does mark the beginning of changes in my life. I will not be doing anything today or tomorrow but on Tuesday I will be starting my jury service as I mentioned a couple of weeks ago. It has been about twenty-five years since I was on jury service and no doubt many things have changed since then, for one the venue. I remember little about the procedure but having read the booklet that is supplied I shouldn’t have any problems adjusting to my responsibility. All I remember about my last duty as a juror was the one case I was involved with. My electrical work is on hold for the next two weeks depending on my duty as a juror. There will be other ongoing changes in my life. I just hope they will be for the better for all around me I see changes in the world which are not. Whatever happens I will have to make adjustments according to my own circumstances and try to accept the things I cannot change elsewhere. How long it will take me to adjust to changes I will have to wait and see. I have an inkling what some of those changes might be both in my personal life and those in the world around me but I live from day-to-day and do not worry about such things.
“What can be said in New Year rhymes,
That’s not been said a thousand times?
The new years come, the old years go,
We know we dream, we dream we know.
We rise up laughing with the light,
We lie down weeping with the night.
We hug the world until it stings,
We curse it then and sigh for wings.
We live, we love, we woo, we wed,
We wreathe our prides, we sheet our dead.
We laugh, we weep, we hope, we fear,
And that’s the burden of a year.”
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Posted by Shirley Anne on December 27, 2011

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Another year is almost over and many will be looking back to see where they went wrong or where they succeeded in life. Perhaps they will be thinking why they didn’t really get to grips with last years resolutions with perhaps making a better attempt this time round. It is really about a mind struggle, overcoming one’s self, being determined but also being disciplined. Nothing was ever completed without effort. So what are the things which are most important to you? Is it a real desire to finally lose weight and more importantly keep it down? Perhaps you want to finally give up the weed? Is it a determined effort to make more of your life? Is your desire to help others more, pay more attention to your family, get those jobs finished, or even started, you know, the ones your wife has been asking you to do for years? Do you think that whatever plans and resolutions you make will succeed? Well they won’t, not unless you make the effort. So you have the next twelve months to make those dreams come true or at least make every effort to make them so. This time next year you may be finding how pleased you are with all that you’ve promised to do and succeeded or you may find yourself making more promises that you cannot keep. I do not make new year resolutions, not because I am afraid that I might fail, not because there may not be any to make, for I know that my life is far from being perfect, it is because I won’t make promises that I might not be able to fulfill. Any decisions I make will be on the spur of the moment, when I see a need and out of love. I won’t wish you all the best for the new year as the ‘new year’ means nothing to me but what I will wish is that your life will change for the better from this day forth and without the need to make resolutions, unless you absolutely swear by them!
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